Disclaimer: This article is about sex and sexuality. If you don't feel comfortable reading about that, please feel free to skip this article.
Taboo… The Naughty but Nice Sex Show is coming to Regina this weekend and with it comes many questions you probably didn't know how to ask. As somebody who has never gone to Taboo, I have done the down-and-dirty research to figure out what to expect during your first time.
Taboo runs from February 22nd – 24th at the Conexus Art Centre and is more of a trade show than an actual performance. The premise of the show is mostly education, not just entertainment. It's important to remember that adult entertainment is just that: entertainment. It is based around reality, but it has an element of fantasy attached to it too. Just like how movies and video games take everyday life and puts it in fantastical situations, adult entertainment does the same.
However, there is still a negative connotation surrounding adult entertainment, especially when it comes to influencing young people. There is a lot of blame thrown at the adult entertainment industry for "corrupting youth" or "desensitising sex", but few people talk about all the good that comes out of the adult entertainment industry too. Adult websites are some of the most accessible content available on the planet, with efforts constantly being made create content that is more available for people with visual or audio disabilities. These same adult websites also provide scholarships to students in need, help raise money for breast and testicular cancer research, animal spaying and neutering, whale conversation and even panda breeding.
Not only that, but adult entertainment drives many of the innovations in technology, from virtual reality to big data collecting. The reason some social media platforms like YouTube even exist is due to adult entertainment. The world's largest video platform was invented because the creator wanted to find a video of Janet Jackson's 2004 "wardrobe malfunction".
But the adult entertainment industry realises they have a responsibility for education, and that's one reason Taboo exists. Sexual education is important for both health improvement, enjoyment of oneself and acceptance of your own identity. In many countries in the world sexual tendencies that defer from the societal "norm" can cause imprisonment or even death. In Canada we are lucky this isn't the case, and we should embrace that freedom.
Taboo also acknowledges the sexually transmitted disease crisis we have in Saskatchewan. The adult entertainment industry takes health problems like this much more seriously than other industries do (talking to you, NFL) and strives to educate people on how to better protect and treat themselves. The trade show has exhibitors from AIDS Program South Saskatchewan, Alberta Sex Positive Education, Gay & Lesbian Community Regina, Planned Parenthood, and sex educators from Industrial Luv.
When learning about the show I went in with two separate mindsets on what to expect. Either Taboo would be like Bodies: The Exhibition and be a cut-and-dry education workshop, or it would be a risqué sexual performance like the one I saw at Casa Rosso in Amsterdam (sans gorilla). Instead, it's a mix of the two, being listed as an "adult playground" dedicated to enhancing lifestyles, encouraging romance, personal betterment and all things otherwise "taboo".
The entertainment has several stage acts, which although are bound by the "boring" realms of local law (eg: no gorillas), are full of entertainment and excitement. These include burlesque, drag queens, pole fitness, and male dancers. The event is hosted by Yada Ya-Oughtta-Book-Ahead (Gerrard Dillman) an award-winning drag queen performer from Regina.
Taboo has exhibits and booths dedicated to both "vanilla" and "cosmopolitan" sexual experiences. These include the Taboo Sex Dungeon and The Pup Play Panel which specialises in puppy and master role play.
For those who love animals but aren't into people dressed in leather acting as animals, Taboo has also partnered with Lucky Paws Rescue who ask for donations in exchange for sloppy puppy kisses.
There are also several seminars dedicated to sexual exploration, sexual education and sexual freedom which include topics such as Tantric sex, erotic wax demonstration and strip teasing.
Taboo has been in operation for over twelve years, with sixty percent of the annual 8,000 attendees being female. This statistic surprised me since I expected most of the audience to be male. But, as it turns out, shows like Taboo allow women to embrace their sexuality and feel more comfortable and empowered in their own skin.
There are many new exhibitors this year at the show such as Jimmy's Cannabis, NoMoreWetSpot, Industrial Luv Products Inc., Miss BumBum North America and Nut Man Regina, which serves delicious (non-sexual) nuts. Guests can take pictures of performers on stage, and can meet them in person too.
When I started my blog, I wanted a place to tell stories. I wanted a place where I could keep memories and show them off for people later. My earliest entries on my blog are from 2011 (published in 2014), right after my trip to Europe. They're messy, they lack detail, and they are full of inaccuracies. Not the mention the wretched photography.
So, there's only been a slight improvement since then. Hahahahaha.
Four years later, my blog has become my hobby, my joy, my escape and my work. I spend hours writing content for my blog. I spend hours editing pictures, researching details, and adjusting content for SEO (search engine optimization). It's a full-time gig, and just the other day I published my 200th article. After 200 times of doing something, you'd think the articles would get easier, but they really don't. Each one is unique unto itself, and each one is a special time in my life that I shared with my readers.
About a year and a half ago I visited Kyiv, Ukraine. As I walked down the millennium old streets and gawked at the towering cathedrals, I saw the beginnings of a new country, one that was slowly rebuilding from a much darker time. The process of what I was seeing had a name. It was called decommunization.
Decommunization includes renaming architecture, changing laws and protocols, and even tearing down monuments. People's Friendship Arch in Kyiv, for example, which symbolised the friendship between the Communist East and the Capitalist West, was torn down. Some statues, like war memorials, are exempt, but there is still talk of making modifications to them. Anywhere you go throughout the former Soviet Union, the hammer and sickle are being removed – not from history, but from modern society.
A few articles ago I listed Ogema as one of the top destinations to visit in Saskatchewan. Immediately after I wrote the article, I put my money where my mouth was and booked a weekend trip to Ogema for my girlfriend and me. I figured it wouldn't be fair to my readers to recommend a place for them to visit without actually visiting it myself, and after getting my new Galaxy S7 from TELUS I figured I needed a reason to test it out.
Earlier this year I took my Galaxy S6 to La Ronge, and had very little coverage. I wanted to use Facebook's new Live Video option, but I couldn't get enough service to even send a text message. I was pretty disappointed by the coverage with that provider, so I was interested to see how TELUS' network was in Ogema.
The result was pretty darn good! We streamed Spotify all the way there, were able to do a Live Video from the Deep South Pioneer Museum and took some really great pictures and videos of the trip. It also helped to have a reliable network when I got lost driving there (don't ask me how!). TELUS has invested over $29 billion into their network since 2000 and it has really paid off. It's a great feeling knowing that no matter where you travel, you can rely on TELUS to keep you connected.